March 5, 2025
I have never felt so sure of anything in my life before. As I sat there in the bustling cafe in a quaint upscale neighborhood in San Francisco all the pieces were beginning to click in my head. I took another sip of my turmeric tea and smiled to myself, this is what my devotion will be in 2025. I’m already over 2 months into the year so this warrants a bit of catching up to do, but if anyone can do it, it would be me. This year, I’m going to marry my future husband.
Let me start off by saying I haven’t met my future husband yet. I have yet to have my first serious boyfriend. I haven’t even fallen in love before. BUT, I believe that your past doesn’t dictate your future. I know I have it in me to be a good wife, a good partner, a good mother. I’ve never wanted any of those things until last year, when I turned the rip old age of 30. I realized suddenly that the time of discovering the world and prioritizing travel, hobbies, basically everything that distracted me from forming any sort of meaningful relationship was over. The things that once filled my heart with complete joy and satisfaction only make my heart half full now a days. I was longing for purpose, for the ability to create something bigger than myself. For motherhood. For the support, unwavering trust, and endless love of a partner.
Here’s the gameplan:
- Friends:reach out to acquaintances to form deep bonds
- Friends: go to a 30s meetup once a week
- Hobbies: Join a book club
- Hobbies: Do pickelball on the weekends
- Hobbies: Go to a game night
- Services: volunteer with kids
- Self improvement: 1 blog post everyday
- Self improvement: therapy session once per month
- Dating: 1 new date (at least) a week
Honey to Bear 